While a few guys are just bozos, most lose out on hot dates because of ignorance, not incompetence.Essentially, most men just fail to notice when girls are into them. you can't hold it against a girl when you guess wrong), there are some signs that are fairly universal.
Next time you're going out with your girls, get a blowout and throw on your favorite mini. Yeah, it sounds kinda cheesy, but it's super important to remind yourself that you kick ass.
Walk down the street thinking "I am sexy, and any guy would be lucky to talk to me." Trust us, it makes a difference in how you act.
This is crazy-important: Flirting is all about making the person you're with feel like the center of the universe—so you might have to stroke his ego a bit.
Ask questions, listen to his answers, and ask follow-ups.
For example, that drool-worthy dude you'll bump into in a Arizona Cardinals tee—ask how long he's been a fan, and follow up with another question. Sites like Living Social and Groupon are filled with discounts for cooking classes and cool activities.
Sign up for things that interest you and bring a friend along (or fly solo).You can flirt anywhere, but it's a little easier when you know you have a shared interest with a guy.Nothing catches a guy's eye more than a flock of sexy women.Grab a fun friend or two—the backup will boost your confidence.Just make sure to let them know that when you start connecting with someone, they can back off. Sometimes you reel in guys you realize you're just not that into. The most likely place where you can meet some hot women are the nightclubs.