This means chatting a little bit, finding out why the girl is doing online dating, if she's any fun, etc.
At this point I want to weed out the ones looking to get married or start a "serious" relationship, because that's not what I'm looking for.
Then set up the date close to her place (preferred) or close to mine. That way if all goes well we can down our drinks and run to bed. If we have 2 rounds of drinks, I like to have her pay one, that way she feels like she's in charge.
After a few dates, I found that I was always following the same script, saying the same stuff at the same time, and my success rate went up.
But yeah, there's some chatting involved during the preliminary screening.
Also, I tend to sit and wait, instead of sending the 1st message (I say this on my profile BTW), and I get contacted fairly often (more than I would have expected) but not by super-hotties though. I'm not at the point where I feel I'm wasting my time on a date, even if it doesn't lead to sex.
People have twisted interesting lives, and they make good stories sometimes.
I'd much rather connect with people face to face than over the internet/telephone.
As my game improves I'm sure I can start closing even gold-diggers who would normally refuse to fuck on the first date. Your ex is a ho The ex just wants to get laid, just like he does. She succeeds more often because girls always have it easier.
literally means “leftover woman.” It was coined to describe China’s growing crop of middle-class women who, thanks to new educational and economic opportunities, have been able to rise to unprecedented ranks within Chinese society—at the expense of their love lives.