comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.
“How could I possibly date two people, or even three people, when handling one person was too much?
” you ask yourself as you scroll thru your texts one lazy Sunday.
“How could it be that the universe is handing me such a Herculean task? This embarrassment of riches is your prize for enduring countless shitty dates and rebuffing the advances of grody bros in I-banker loafers who are too drunk to see straight while you’re waiting in line for the bathroom.
If you ever, ever feel bad about dating more than one person, remind yourself that if you were a dude, this behavior would be second nature. The golden rule: Make sure they don’t know each other.
This is unfamiliar territory, and it is perfectly natural to have questions. Here are a few tips and tricks for juggling two people — or more! I had a friend in college who happened to be dating two people at the same time for over a year.
The deception in and of itself was bad enough, as she was forging deep connections with both, but the worst part?
They were friends with each other and, inevitably, they found out.
One day, she got home from class and found both of them sitting on the couch, waiting for her, and they were not happy. If you’re going to date two people, do your absolute best to make sure they don’t know each other, like, If you find out early on that they do, abort mission.
When — or if — do I have to tell the people about each other?
There is an enduring instinct to treat people the way that we’d like to be treated.
With dating, this rule sadly doesn’t always hold true.