This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested in. This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences. They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles.
Instead, they settle for less or don’t even try at all.
I think that’s awful because I know many normal, great guys who just happen to like younger women. I want to show you that there’s nothing wrong with age disparity in a relationship and it may even work out better for many couples.
You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.
On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.
Before I get attacked as somehow being sexist…look at the anecdotal evidence.
On average, men in all societies date younger women.
Most female sex icons are in their 20’s or early 30’s.
Hollywood hunks are often in their 30s, 40’s, and older.
Those Hollywood actors who have options almost always choose young women.
And unfortunately, if they’re leaving their wife, it’s almost always for a younger woman.
OKCupid data shows that men of all ages find women in their early to mid-20’s to be the most attractive. Our main attraction switches are a youthful, healthy physical appearance.