Given all the niche dating apps floating about on the internet right now – the bacon-lovers dating app, for example – it’s a little sad that until now, there wasn’t a dating app for a group of people who often feel excluded in the dating scene: plus-size women. It’s a new dating app created just for plus-size women – and the men who have a thing for women with curves.
Says Li: ‘We’re just trying to provide a comfortable environment for women who happen to be a little larger.
Editor's Note: I've been plus-size my entire adult life.
I've been as large as 406lbs and as "small" as my current 220.
I have experienced the gamut of plus-size dating trials and successes. The only girl born in the hospital that day, you could say I was destined to be the big girl in the room. Nearly every day, I'm reminded by media, society, or my mirror about my weight and how it affects my dating life.
The assumptions about larger women are moslty made because society has yet to embrace the beauty of ALL women. There's more to us than the myths.-- Feminista Jones I was born 10 lbs. Most smaller folks would love to throw pennies of pity into my proverbial empty Styrofoam cup, but I'd like to tell them this: I don't need your change. Just because I wear a size 22 doesn't mean every random man has a shot with me.
There is a belief that those who are deemed unattractive in society (this includes being big) have no right to have standards.
Confidence is important for any woman to have, big or small. Quiet as its kept, some plus sized women have more going on in that department than their smaller friends.
I was fortunate enough to be raised to love myself, but confidence is like a muscle; if you don't use it, it will deteriorate. I will admit there is a population of men who deliberately go after big girls believing that we are easy prey. There are just as many superficial jerks chasing after slim women.
The ability to remain secure with yourself can require constant effort from anyone. I despise when people patronizingly offer me food, especially sweets (I'm not a sweets eater at all).
I've been dating since I was 15 and I have barely been single since. In dating situations, guys may ask if I want something to eat. The rattle off a litany of sweet, sugary treats like a rude auctioneer, waiting for me to bid on something fattening.
The only reason I'm single now is because I haven't chosen anyone to be with. As a last ditch effort they go, "Are you SURE you don't want anything to eat?