If you’re a single guy travelling on a budget, chances are you’re staying in hostels.
Hostels are mostly inexpensive dormitories where you can sleep on a luxurious bunk bed, surrounded by other budget travellers, who are mostly under thirty.
Many of the rooms are coed, and most hostels have bars nearby, or are bars themselves.
The first step is to hang around the common area until you see some girls, then go say, “hello.” Seems obvious, but I see many guys who come into the hostel and sit by themselves without making introductions. Women know that everyone is there to meet other people, so often even the hottest girls are down to at least chat with you, to find out where you’re from, and where you’re going.
It is very, very rarely that a female will approach a stranger—even in a hostel—unless she’s a prostitute. It’s sort of like you’re part of a community of bunk bed friends.
So walk up to the first attractive female you see, and say, “Hi.” Don’t wait half the day to do this either. You can follow this opening with brilliant conversation like, “where are you from? If you can afford a private room in a party hostel, you have a huge advantage, since you can host private parties in your room.
Women abroad don’t always want to bang in a ten bed dorm room.
So you can always go to your private room to check out some travel vids on your laptop, listen to music, watch a movie, or whatever bullshit you need to say to get her back there. Or ask them if they want to get some food, or a drink. There are loads of horny dudes milling around these hostels.
If you hang out in the lobby long enough eventually new girls will check in. They usually don’t have the approach skills to meet girls like you do.
As a rule, the first nice people they meet will become their new best friends. There is a great power in being, “first.” After you’ve made friends, ask them if they’ve done any of the tourist things. Their strategy is to wait to be introduced, or wait until night to get smashed at the pub crawl.
The copious amounts of alcohol will bring out their courage and game.
But if you’ve been with the girls all day, you will have an advantage.