But not every female cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs.
Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
Fortunately, more women are realizing the flaw in these beliefs.
A recent study shows women are more likely to choose a younger man when dating online.
Another study published in the journal, Psychology of Women Quarterly, found women who are ten or more years older than their partner report more satisfaction and relationship commitment compared to women who are the same age or younger than their partner.“We don’t know for sure, but it may be because when the woman is older, it shifts the traditional heterosexual power dynamic toward greater equality.
We know from a lot of research that greater equality tends to make couples happier,” writes study author Dr.
Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist in the Department of Psychology at Harvard University in his blog, the Psychology of Human Sexuality.
There are even more resources available beyond the information we’ve summarized in our post, and some excellent books have been written on the subject of being an older woman who is dating or wants to date a younger man.
Here are some of the ones we recommend: Cougar: A Guide For Older Women Dating Younger Men Don’t Ever Call Me Ma’am: The Real Cougar Woman Handbook Older Women, Younger Men: New Options for Love and Romance Here are some tips to finding and keeping a younger man, who can keep up with your hot, vibrant self: The term “cougar” has a predatory connotation that women don’t want to be associated with.
It gives the implication that older women are on the prowl, hunting younger men, known as “cubs”, as if they are prey.
However, most women are approached by younger men, not the other way around. By not associating yourself with that term, you will erase any negative feelings toward having a relationship with a man much younger than yourself.
Men are attracted to confident women regardless of their age. Younger women tend to have more insecurities as they are still figuring out their place in the world, drawn to dating “bad boys” and are more likely to play games with the men that they date.
On the other hand, older women are already established, are more comfortable in their skin and are finished with all the BS games they played when they were younger.